tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-58778456303080451492024-02-21T11:13:54.763+09:00てのひらの幸せ自分を大きく変えることはできないけれど、ちょっと足の向きを変えることはできるはず。<br>今自分が持っている幸せに気付くだけで、もう半歩先に進むきっかけになるかもしれません。40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.comBlogger442125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-86265688673615073902021-01-19T21:50:00.002+09:002021-01-21T18:50:21.597+09:00あなたが時間をかけてみつけること<p> </p><p>~今回で最後の記事です~</p><p><br /></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">自宅で過ごす時間が多くなり<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">できた時間に<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">何かをした方が<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">良いとは思う<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">思うけれど<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">「何をしたらいいのでしょう」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">「何をしたらいいのかわからない」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">というお声を</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">伺うことがあります<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">でも これだけは<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自分でし</span><span style="font-family: arial;">てみて</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">合うのか・合わないのか</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">やってみたいのか・そうではないのか</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">見つけることなのでしょう<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> ++</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">先日</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">雑誌「サンキュ!」さんからの</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">取材をきっかけに</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">これまでの自分を</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">振り返ってみようと<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">年表を書いてみました<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">【私の記事掲載は</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span><span style="font-family: arial;">2月25日発売号です】</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">文字にしてみると<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">自分なりにではありますが</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">様々なことに</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">年月をかけてきたのだと</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">感じました</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">単に時間がかかっただけ</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">のものもありますが(汗)</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">私が 趣味のように</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">投稿を始めてから<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">雑誌での連載を経て<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span lang="EN-US">1</span>冊目の本を出すまで<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">約<span lang="EN-US">10</span>年が経っていました</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">お茶会の募集をして<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">お客様が すんなり<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">集まってくださるのにも</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">3年以上が必要でしたし<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">心の勉強後<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">今の仕事が<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">安定して<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">仕事らしくなるのにも<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span lang="EN-US">5</span>年以上かかりました<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">認知症の祖母を<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">さいたまに呼びよせ<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">施設で暮らす際の</span><span style="font-family: arial;">対応は</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">私が担当しました</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">当時は それほど</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">長くは生きられない</span><span style="font-family: arial;">と</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">思っていたのに</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">祖母は</span><span style="font-family: arial;">10年も生きてくれました</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">震災後</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">打ちのめされて</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">寝てばかりいた母が</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">(私は この人は</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">もう元気になることは</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ないのだと思っておりました)</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">「さいたまはいいわね」と</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">元気に過ごしてくれ</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">友だちも増えた今</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">あれから</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">10年になります</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><br /></p><p>
</p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">やった・できた<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">悪くなかったのかもしれない</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">と感じるには<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">時間がかかります</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">時々 <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">言われたことがあります</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松さんはいいですね<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">すんなり仕事に繋がって<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">簡単に収入を得ることができて<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">「そうなのかな~」<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">『まぁ 運は良い方?』と<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">思ってきましたが<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">振り返ってみたら<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">そんなに簡単に<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">今があるわけでも<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ないようです<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">資格を取ったり<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">勉強もしましたが<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">あの時間……と思いつつ</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">手離す必要があったもの</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">役に立たなかったものがあります<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">それでも <span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+どんなことも<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; text-indent: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: arial;">経験だと信じ</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; text-indent: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: arial;">日々の生活を<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="mso-char-indent-count: 1.0; text-indent: 10.5pt;"><span style="font-family: arial;">コツコツと積み重ねる<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+下り坂でもくじけない<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+周囲からの声に耳を傾ける<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+単なる批判や嫌がらせは脇に置く<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+続ける<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">+家族を大切にする</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ことをしてきた</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">自分がい</span><span style="font-family: arial;">た(いる)ことは</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">事実として<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">認めてやりたいと思っています<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">そして何より<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">こうして書く場所を<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">与えてくださった<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ペンギン企画室の</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">臼井さん・大橋さん<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">お二人の支えや助言</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">協力</span><span style="font-family: arial;">あってこその</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">今だと</span><span style="font-family: arial;">感じております</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">何もできなかった私を</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ここまで</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">成長させてくださったこと</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ずっと忘れません</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;">++</span></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">ここの場は離れますが<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">他でも</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">書く場所がある限り<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">書かせていただこうと<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">思っております<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">よろしければ<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">この先も</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">読んでいただけましたら</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">嬉しいです<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></o:p></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆さま これまで</span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">この場所に来てくださり<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;">本当にありがとうございました<span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p class="MsoNormal"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgp8vDK44tYyHWyOECldoxgmah-I0MBQ17gbCgh2JKnXMtsMTnf8psqzmHm3-5wUtSkeQyu-3SCXbLQUOh-kDpmq7S5kSomwwuu078NeqjE-C6_-0wHbXr1rQW3pjP4jfxzV6vO-OT6ynEa/s640/%25E3%2581%2586%25E3%2581%2597%25E3%2582%258D.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgp8vDK44tYyHWyOECldoxgmah-I0MBQ17gbCgh2JKnXMtsMTnf8psqzmHm3-5wUtSkeQyu-3SCXbLQUOh-kDpmq7S5kSomwwuu078NeqjE-C6_-0wHbXr1rQW3pjP4jfxzV6vO-OT6ynEa/s320/%25E3%2581%2586%25E3%2581%2597%25E3%2582%258D.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p></p>
<p class="MsoNormal"><span lang="EN-US"><o:p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></o:p></span></p><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;"><b><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">*若松美穂HP「いまとみらいのへや」</a></b></span><div><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;"><b><br /></b></span><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 0px 10px;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 12pt;"><span style="box-sizing: border-box; font-weight: 700;"><a href="https://esse-online.jp/author?writer_id=56"><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">*ESSE online</span></a></span></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 0px 10px;"><span style="font-weight: 700;"><a href="https://39.benesse.ne.jp/style/writer/2900/"><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">*サンキュ!</span></a></span></p><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: grey; font-family: yugothm; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 0px 10px;"><span style="color: #999999; font-weight: 700;"><br /></span></p><br /><p style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; color: grey; font-family: yugothm; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px 0px 10px;"> </p><p></p></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-66125663233344277462021-01-04T16:58:00.002+09:002021-01-04T17:00:49.212+09:00「おわり」と「はじまり」<p> </p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「てのひらの幸せ」が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">1月末(残すところあと一回)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">で 終わりを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">迎えることになりました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">みなさま </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">長い間 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">読んでいただき</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">本当に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ありがとうございます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”おわり”を伺ったとき</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私自身 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">すんなり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">受け入れることができました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">満足感もありました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">主催してくださる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ペンギン企画室さんと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分自身に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「お疲れさま(でした)」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">という気持ちがメインで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ガッカリしなかったのです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私も年齢を重ね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">経験を積んだのでしょう</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">これまで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何度も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何度も体験した</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">物事の”おわり”</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”おわり”は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">残念なものではなく</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何かの”はじまり”</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">でもあります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">こちらに使っていた</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">時間と経験を</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">無駄にさえしなければ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">生活や仕事の中で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">別の何かを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">生み出すことのできる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”はじまり”に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">つながるのです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”おわり”がわかった瞬間</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『これをしようかな』が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いくつか</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">頭の中に浮かびました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">2021年</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">さっそく始めます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様にとって</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">2021年</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">より良いものとなりますように</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgny83kBQ3oLU1QD3VIWa7A6Uiiuc87C58IwH6iQDN9At1TYjKgGg77tmbi2gfc8FkXtI5uu0_oTBUdVbaG1l-Yo8ifjglfmqVNtqmuum0evdr8DPadqtYI-cBavAvYXTI0nnzR90bGbh7P/s900/aoshougatu.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="602" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgny83kBQ3oLU1QD3VIWa7A6Uiiuc87C58IwH6iQDN9At1TYjKgGg77tmbi2gfc8FkXtI5uu0_oTBUdVbaG1l-Yo8ifjglfmqVNtqmuum0evdr8DPadqtYI-cBavAvYXTI0nnzR90bGbh7P/s320/aoshougatu.JPG" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">~お知らせ~</span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ブログ・講座の告知や募集</span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松美穂のHP</span></a></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a></span><br /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">を</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ご覧下さいませ</span></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><b><br /></b></span></div><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><br /></p>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-75651205173618324272020-12-20T21:50:00.008+09:002020-12-21T23:00:38.975+09:00自分を知ると選ぶことができる<p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">先日 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ある本を読みましたら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『押入れを占領する</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">客用布団は 貸し布団に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">(布団は持たず</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">借りましょう)』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と 書いてありました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">写真を見ると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">素敵で かなり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">スッキリしたお宅でした</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNjGQLM0_pHE0M4TGlOTTmIQIld76E57CLql2fqPK3JIfXv1oNvs_YhnjVfFsEaKb4oH9cJtBGpKrfmtIa4nrc94yp_zEHLvJAhOx8mgz9iyIoGUn7SqpcOAeRINJHLYAhzIEIXvk9Atmc/s640/bokushi.jpg" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="461" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNjGQLM0_pHE0M4TGlOTTmIQIld76E57CLql2fqPK3JIfXv1oNvs_YhnjVfFsEaKb4oH9cJtBGpKrfmtIa4nrc94yp_zEHLvJAhOx8mgz9iyIoGUn7SqpcOAeRINJHLYAhzIEIXvk9Atmc/s320/bokushi.jpg" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">こちらを読みましたら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">同じように</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">心地よく暮らしていらして</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">でも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『一人暮らしでも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">4~5人泊まれるくらいの</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">布団はある</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">地震や台風などの災害時にも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">数人泊まれるように』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と あります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">どちらも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それぞれの価値観で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自分なりの</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">理由があります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「なるほど」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「そうですよね」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と 思いました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何が良いのかは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その方</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その家庭によって</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">違います</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">でも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分を知らないと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">選択すること自体が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">難しくなるのですよね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分はどうしたいのか?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何を大切にしたい?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何が必要?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">収納は?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">手間は?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">把握できたら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">暮らしやすくなります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わが家は </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">収納場所や</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">家の狭さを考えますと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">冬場なら 2人</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">夏場は 4人まで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">泊まれるように</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">してあります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">本や</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">他の方のお話って</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いいですね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分は?を</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">考えるきっかけ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いただいております</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">こちらの本は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">共感できることが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">たくさんあって</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">母にも勧めました</span></p><p><br /></p><div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">~お知らせ~</span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ブログ・講座の告知や募集</span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松美穂のHP</span></a></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a></span><br /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">を</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ご覧下さいませ</span></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">最近 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/m_wakachin8/?hl=ja">インスタ</a>も時々<b>。</b></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><b><br /></b></span></div><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><br /></p>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-34041762852736451492020-12-07T01:00:00.008+09:002020-12-07T08:52:05.602+09:00異なる意見や考えの中で<p> </p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">これまでも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今と変わらず</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">……だった</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">はずなのですけれど</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">コロナの問題が起きてから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">なお認識するのは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一つの意見・見解には</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">常に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">賛成や 中立 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">反対があり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ハッキリも分けられない</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">微妙な色々が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">入り交ざったものもあって </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それぞれ理由がある</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">立場で異なる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">年代でも異なる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">地域・職場・関係性</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> 何より</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一人ひとりが異なる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『あぁ 違うんだ』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『ただ 違うんだよね』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『そう 皆 違うの』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何度も 何度も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">心の中で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">唱えたような気がします</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">だから何</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">という結論もなく</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><b><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: medium;">違うを認識する</span></b></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">受けいれる……まで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いくことはできなくても</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">実際にある</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”違い”を</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">そっと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">置いていく感覚</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">微妙に違う</span><span style="font-family: arial;">色の箱が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分の足元に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">次々と置かれ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何十</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何百</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何千……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見渡す限りの箱に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">囲まれているけれど</span></p><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">蹴飛ばす必要もない</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">押しやる必要もない</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ただ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">囲まれすぎて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">苦しくならないように</span></p><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一筋 </span><span style="font-family: arial;">自分が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">通ることのできる道は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">残しておこうと思う</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">違った色の箱も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「あっていいよね」と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">置いたままにして</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRd5Ctj-pJiHpII-oFRb_JQSOccEPVffJ8SQCrKzVL1bIRtOJ4wdgvmPJ4O39KEsY4guW3X_al4jBNtVDpSobDzeCuCdEEkTjnBudm8b4tTZNCuZ9naPcYrdcxMFtrvTBaz2t3-8KfI6yN/s640/%25E5%25AC%2589%25E3%2581%2597%25E3%2581%2584%25E3%2583%2597%25E3%2583%25AC%25E3%2582%25BC%25E3%2583%25B3%25E3%2583%2588.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRd5Ctj-pJiHpII-oFRb_JQSOccEPVffJ8SQCrKzVL1bIRtOJ4wdgvmPJ4O39KEsY4guW3X_al4jBNtVDpSobDzeCuCdEEkTjnBudm8b4tTZNCuZ9naPcYrdcxMFtrvTBaz2t3-8KfI6yN/s320/%25E5%25AC%2589%25E3%2581%2597%25E3%2581%2584%25E3%2583%2597%25E3%2583%25AC%25E3%2582%25BC%25E3%2583%25B3%25E3%2583%2588.jpg" width="320" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br />かわいいプレゼント<br />同封されている<br />ペーパーナプキンで<br />Xmas気分が上がります♬</span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">~お知らせ~</span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ブログ・講座の告知や募集</span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松美穂のHP</span></a></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a></span><br /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">を</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ご覧下さいませ</span></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">最近 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/m_wakachin8/?hl=ja">インスタ</a>も時々<b>。</b></span></div><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><br /></p>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-35014648866227416732020-11-19T21:09:00.005+09:002020-11-20T08:20:05.962+09:00子どもと大人を行ったり来たりする子どもたち<p> </p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お子さんが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">高校生や</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">大学生ぐらいになると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">多くの親御さんから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">戸惑いの声が聴かれます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">少し幅を広げると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">中学生から</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">社会人に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">なりたてのお子さんにも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">共通する戸惑いです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">成長して</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">親の言うことなんて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">聞きたくない</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">友だちや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲の言うことが優先</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">時代が違うの!</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分たちの何がわかるんだ!と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">親を </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">突っぱねる子どもたち</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一方で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わがままを言い</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わかって欲しい</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">守って欲しいと言ってみたり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">家庭に戻り</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">親に触れ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">優しくしてほしいと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">甘えてくることも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一体どっちなの?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">大人? </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">子ども?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">対応する親も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">戸惑いますよね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">きっと </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">どちらも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">本当の彼らなのでしょう</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">大人になる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">階段の踊り場で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">のぼったり 下ったり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">行ったり来たり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">しているのかな</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私は その都度</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">彼らと一緒に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">登ったり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">下ったりすればいいと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">思ってきました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いつか</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「あれ?」と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">こちらが思ったときには</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見えないくらい</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一気に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">駆け上がっていくときが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">くるだろうから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">(……なんて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">断言はできないけれど</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">期待を込めて)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">そばにいることを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">望まれていなければ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">遠くから見守り</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">望まれるなら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">少しの間 そばにいて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">パッと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">飛び立つ時期を</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">待てばいいのかなって</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtwDSFG30qKclvw1fVYdJ4hls9qlgkptzjYWPNRNGVpCP0REzLLDZE2gBRObaBv1qCh6r190SKDulKbOy5RJY93yyRqEoyl80simjcuvKRL5IQ9Zh4ifDn4tthr_XG8XR8oI4EorJh1Gdu/s640/%25E3%2582%25B4%25E3%2583%25AB%25E3%2583%2595.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="480" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtwDSFG30qKclvw1fVYdJ4hls9qlgkptzjYWPNRNGVpCP0REzLLDZE2gBRObaBv1qCh6r190SKDulKbOy5RJY93yyRqEoyl80simjcuvKRL5IQ9Zh4ifDn4tthr_XG8XR8oI4EorJh1Gdu/s320/%25E3%2582%25B4%25E3%2583%25AB%25E3%2583%2595.JPG" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">~お知らせ~</span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ブログ・講座の告知や募集</span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松美穂のHP</span></a></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a></span><br /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">を</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ご覧下さいませ</span></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">最近 <a href="https://www.instagram.com/m_wakachin8/?hl=ja">インスタ</a>も時々<b>。</b></span></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-9049384377601461132020-11-05T21:00:00.003+09:002020-11-05T22:36:39.316+09:00大人だって 泣いてもいいんだよ<div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様のお話を伺っていると</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">言葉に詰まったり</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">涙声になったり</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">涙が流れたり</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">自然に</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">不思議と……も</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">あるでしょうけれど</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">「泣きたかったですよね」</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">も あります</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">ご本人様は</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">精一杯</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">やっている</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">これまでも</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">ずっと ずっと</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">頑張ってきたのです</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">ただ……</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">私たちも</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">大人になったのかしら?</span></div><div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">子どもの頃のように</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">思いのまま</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">泣くことができない</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲を見渡すと</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">それ以上の人がいることを</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">知っているから</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">誰もが</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">当たり前のように</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">こなしているように</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">見えるから</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">つい </span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">自分は</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">”まだまだ”</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">”もっと”と </span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">自分を追い詰める</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">「これが私の精一杯なの!」</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">なんて</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">言ってはいけないような</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">気がして</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">でもね</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">泣いてもいいんだよ</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">嘆いても</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">愚痴っても</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">たまには</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">「もうやだー」</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">「やめた~~~い」って </span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">言っても良いんだよ</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">言うくらい</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">良いじゃない</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">時々 サボるのは</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">自分へのご褒美</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">自分を大切にしたら</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">許してあげたら</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">少しだけ</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">違った気持ちが</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">生まれるかもしれないから</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;">……ね</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgp0V_wlt6kkxtR3bEAFfk6RMlrQWG7v6Rxr2484Ri471580fF0QOgchh5fAwF7ueolvLJv6ngHjJGloTJHHbTbQOSjmnRrN96eaGYs-4Yh3RXj9UJ9yuV-vPE4zYR2q1mrlI24p4UeY7sP/s640/%25E3%2582%2586%25E3%2581%2586%25E3%2581%25B2.JPG" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="480" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgp0V_wlt6kkxtR3bEAFfk6RMlrQWG7v6Rxr2484Ri471580fF0QOgchh5fAwF7ueolvLJv6ngHjJGloTJHHbTbQOSjmnRrN96eaGYs-4Yh3RXj9UJ9yuV-vPE4zYR2q1mrlI24p4UeY7sP/s320/%25E3%2582%2586%25E3%2581%2586%25E3%2581%25B2.JPG" /></span></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><br />皆さま お疲れ様です</span></td></tr></tbody></table><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;">~お知らせ~</span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ブログ・講座の告知や募集</span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/"><span style="font-family: arial;">若松美穂のHP</span></a></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a></span><br /><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">を</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ご覧下さいませ</span></span></div></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;">最近 インスタも時々<b>。</b></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div><div><br /></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-49748058235928787052020-10-19T22:41:00.002+09:002020-11-19T20:12:37.139+09:00波紋のように伝わる気持ち<p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> 自分で言うのも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">なんですが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">祖父母や両親に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">大切に育てられ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">身近な方たちや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">親戚・友人にも恵まれ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">18歳までを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">平穏に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">宮城県で過ごしました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ですから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">都心に出てから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">48歳になる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ここまでの30年で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">こんなにも </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">驚くことや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">困惑すること</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">迷うことが起きるとは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">思いませんでした(汗)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ただ </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今は……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それが”人生”で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">”生きること”なのだと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">受け止めています</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それだけではなく</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いっとき </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">落ち込んでも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">最後には</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">起きた事を</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ポジティブにとらえ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">前に進む力をくれたのは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">小さい頃から</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「愛」をくれ続けた家族</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">地域や </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">関わってくださった</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲の方の</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">おかげだと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">感謝しているのです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">先日 聞かれました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『若松さんが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">仕事をする</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一番の目的は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何ですか?』と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私の場合</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分が分けてもらった</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">気持ちやありがたさを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">知っているからこそ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">皆様に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分ができることで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お伝えできたらいいな</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と 思っております</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">愛情や気持ちは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">波紋のように</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">次第に大きくなって</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲に伝わるものだと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">学びました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私が関わらせていただく方は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お一人でも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お二人でも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">講座で学んだことや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自身の気づきを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その方が </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご家族や</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲の方に伝え</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">さらに さらに</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">様々な形で</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">広げてくださるでしょう</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHrnrBlCDXOhz_HJM846vEDo6dkMOUnxQzhVGOnTj3F9oZ1jwrMkCGKFWyJpn-3kquq-wgePR5YWWjMCOmbXU4igQQEUtT7hl7WGC8ZSDNyZrIRadqfQvE5wmcY81bj2Pzh7dxAJhsVEva/s640/%25E9%2590%2598.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><span style="font-family: arial;"><img border="0" data-original-height="480" data-original-width="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjHrnrBlCDXOhz_HJM846vEDo6dkMOUnxQzhVGOnTj3F9oZ1jwrMkCGKFWyJpn-3kquq-wgePR5YWWjMCOmbXU4igQQEUtT7hl7WGC8ZSDNyZrIRadqfQvE5wmcY81bj2Pzh7dxAJhsVEva/s320/%25E9%2590%2598.jpg" width="320" /></span></a></div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: arial;"><br /></span></b></div><div style="margin: 0px;"><br /></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-64300542525655185832020-10-06T22:20:00.011+09:002020-11-19T20:12:54.985+09:00本当に不安な人は……<p> </p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">年月が経ったからこそ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">言えることがあります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分なりに</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">理解できることや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見えることがあります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">友人が 言っていました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「真っただ中にいると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わからないことがあるよね」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">そうですね……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分も そうでした</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今でこそ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">SNSでのコメントに</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">異を唱える風潮がありますが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私が </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『なんてことない普通の人</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> 専業主婦のクセに!?』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何かを表現し始めた</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">20年前は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">・言われて当たり前</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">・反応はしないのが得策</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">・こちら側が我慢すべき</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">という意見が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ほとんどでした</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">そんな中でも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">家族と両親</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">大切な人たちが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">全面的に味方をしてくれことが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">命をつないでくれました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今はどうでしょう……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">時代は変わります♪</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一般の方も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">子どもであっても</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">SNSで自分を表現します</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">顔も生活も</span><span style="font-family: arial;">見せます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">魅せてくれます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: x-small;"><b>(私は ”ちびキン”ちゃんの</b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: x-small;"><b>大ファン 自分の子でもないのに</b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: x-small;"><b>「かわいいでしょ?」って」</b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: x-small;"><b>自慢してる)</b></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">*****</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">娘たちが小さい頃</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">彼女たちの</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">健康や</span><span style="font-family: arial;">食生活</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">顔出ししたことでの</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">心への影響や成長に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">多くの</span><span style="font-family: arial;">ご心配をいただきました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">年月を積み重ね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">娘たちは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">二人とも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">元気に過ごしております</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">節約メニューで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">粗食だった割に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">24歳と19歳は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">170㎝の長身揃いです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">健康のため</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お魚は たくさん</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">食べさせましたが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">食生活うんぬんより</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">遺伝でしょうね(笑)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">親が親ですので</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">特別なものは持っていません</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">けれど 日々 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">淡々と生きてくれています</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私は それで充分です</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ある時</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲の意見に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">悩んでいた私に</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">長女が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">問いかけてくれました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「それでママは困っているの?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> 私や ○○ちゃん(妹)は</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> 困っていないでしょう?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"> じゃあ いいじゃない!」って</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その時 思ったのです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『あぁ そうか……』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">困っているのは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私たちではないんだ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">未来が見えなくて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">正解がなくて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">不安で仕方がないのも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私たちではないらしい</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">意見をしている方たちが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「このままでいいわけがない」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「正しくない」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「間違っている」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「こうであるべき」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「私は違うのに……」って </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">不安なんだ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">先日 ネットで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">浜崎あゆみさんが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「プライベートに関しては</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分の物差しで 決めて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">選んで生きていきます」と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">お話されたと読みました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私は 彼女のことを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">よく知りません</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">(スミマセン)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ただ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『そうですよね』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と 思いました</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">彼女のいうとおり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『その他 多くの人と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">違っても構わない』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">のでしょうし</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『幸せの形は人それぞれ』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『当の本人にしかわからない』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ことがあるのだと思います</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わが家も </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">我流でしたが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一応 </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">育っております</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それだけではなく</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私は 彼女たちが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">愛おしくて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">仕方がありません</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">娘たちは </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私のことを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「困った親バカ」だと</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">思っているらしいです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">反省(^-^;</span></p><p><br /></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">今後 何があるのか</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">わかりません</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『それ見たことか』と</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">言われるようなことが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">起こるかもしれません</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それでも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私だけは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">彼女たちを大切に想い</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">日々を淡々と過ごす</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">過去も・今も・未来も</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私ができること</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">することは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">それだけです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpWNulVgXKfagipNgNJYN-pyLEzrHnBLhaESTnA-3zdntMd6OqEMc1J4GJ8IEqDViVj0Xp_56M4IBRs15dj1BEqjHRXk4Ub-HwBiJj0nIf6Zz0UTFBgGkEd1cI1y7aCpr-swpkrr-ihIJ9/s900/%25E5%25A8%2598%25E3%2581%259F%25E3%2581%25A1.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="900" data-original-width="675" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpWNulVgXKfagipNgNJYN-pyLEzrHnBLhaESTnA-3zdntMd6OqEMc1J4GJ8IEqDViVj0Xp_56M4IBRs15dj1BEqjHRXk4Ub-HwBiJj0nIf6Zz0UTFBgGkEd1cI1y7aCpr-swpkrr-ihIJ9/s320/%25E5%25A8%2598%25E3%2581%259F%25E3%2581%25A1.JPG" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">学び・仕事・日常・成長</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">彼女たちの今があるのは</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">周囲の方たちがいてこそ</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">皆さまに感謝♡</span></div><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><div style="margin: 0px;"><br /></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-71826643345686828142020-09-20T00:00:00.045+09:002020-11-19T20:13:12.032+09:00自分で自分を楽にする<p> </p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">休んでいる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">暇な時間ができる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">寝すぎる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何かをやめる</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">……などがあると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「こんなことをしていて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いいのだろうか?」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">「だらけてはいけない」</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">なんて</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自分を </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">責めてしまうことは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ありませんか</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">以前の</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">そうではなかった自分と比べ</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ダメ出しをしたりして……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">でも </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">休みや</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">心にゆとりを持つ </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">体を休めることが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">必要な時もありますよね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分に </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ダメだしをすることが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">クセになっている方ほど</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ふいに やってしまう</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ダメだしを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">した後でもいいから</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その後</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">得たものも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">探していただけたら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">いいなと 思います</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">私の場合は……ですが </span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">めいっぱい寝ると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">疲れが取れます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">その後の</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">作業効率が</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">驚くほど上がります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">何かをやめると</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">時間が生まれるので</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">他の新しいことを</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">始めたり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">別の好きなことに</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">時間を費やすことが</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">できます</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">空いた時間のおかげで</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">家族と話したり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">会える人</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見えることが増えたり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ゆっくり</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">考えることができることも……</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">同じことも</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見方によって変わります</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見方を変えるきっかけは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">誰かの発言やお話・行動</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">本・映画・</span><span style="font-family: arial;">音楽・画</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">自分の新たな経験</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">色々とあるとしても</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">見方自体を変えるのは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自分でしか</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">できないことです</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『○○ではあったけれど</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">あれも悪くはなかった』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">『マイナスだけでもなかった</span><span style="font-family: arial;">』</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">と</span><span style="font-family: arial;">思うことができたら</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">一番楽になるのは</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;">ご自分なのですよね</span></p><p><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></p><p></p><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVpTuI3Rnm-Xvsv6gg2gO7eAsCxPa_AovsbrQIJuvIDOOVFGYY6but3suhyphenhyphenJ-g1jNELnVNdt_f-yi2GBUM1u8u2cjNSFNMY1KKtgbj7bGiLTBJXaNgqDrsUXZ7wDIKHzrVjCJ2SuNcIX5/s640/60sai.jpg" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="480" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEguVpTuI3Rnm-Xvsv6gg2gO7eAsCxPa_AovsbrQIJuvIDOOVFGYY6but3suhyphenhyphenJ-g1jNELnVNdt_f-yi2GBUM1u8u2cjNSFNMY1KKtgbj7bGiLTBJXaNgqDrsUXZ7wDIKHzrVjCJ2SuNcIX5/s320/60sai.jpg" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial; font-size: 16px; text-align: left;">『料理レシピ本大賞 in japan』<br />に選ばれた一冊<br />料理をしない私の母も<br />『○○するといいんですって』と<br />楽しんで読んでいます<br /><br />私に教えていないで<br />やってみればいいのに(^^ゞ</span></td></tr></tbody></table><br /><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span><p></p><div style="margin: 0px;"><br /></div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-12673086873710918742020-09-04T07:48:00.004+09:002020-11-19T20:13:26.406+09:00平坦な気持ちの方が多い日々<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">悩みの多くは人間関係</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">誰かに何かをされた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">言われた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">裏切られたと(感じる)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">……ということで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">悩みの種が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">生まれることもありますが</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あえて 取りに行っている</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">場合もあります</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">関わらない方が良いのに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">何も言わない方が良いのに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あえて首を突っ込み</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">巻き込まれに行く感じ</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">今は 距離を取ることを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">覚えたけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">過去の私は </span><div><span style="font-family: "arial";">やってましたね~</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">嫌なことを 握りしめ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">いつまでも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">手離そうとしないから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたの元に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あり続ける場合もある</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">もともとは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">平たんなことだったのに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">イヤなこととして</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">こちらが受け取ったから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">イヤなことになることもあるし</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">妄想を膨らまし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">別の何かをくつけて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">自ら 大きなことに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">してしまう時もあるかな</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">他の人の問題ないのに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">必要以上に 考えすぎて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">自分の方が疲れたりもして</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">そんな時には </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">まず 人のことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考えるのをやめてみる</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたが考えても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">相手の気持ちや行動は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">変わらないから</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">グルグル考えてしまう場合には</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ストップをかけ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">時に 無理やりにでも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">頭や心の中から</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">追い出さないとね</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">どうやって?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">頭と体を忙しくするのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">そんなこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考える暇もないくらい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">『何か』をするのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">働くもいい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">新しい習い事</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ボランティア</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">学び・運動</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">なんでもいい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">何気なく</span></div><div><span style="font-family: "arial";">できることではなくて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考えないと </span></div><div><span style="font-family: "arial";">動かないと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できないことをしてみる</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">人のことより</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">「あなたにとって大切な</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなた自身」が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">何をしたいのか考える</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">今日の・今の自分は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">何ができるのか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">何をすればいいのかを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考えるのです</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">この時こそ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">自分だけのためではなく</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">家族や身近で大切な人のために</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">『相手が喜ぶこと』を考え</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">してみてはいかがでしょう</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">そうしたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">1日が忙しくなって</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">他人様の気持ちや行動について</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考える時間は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ずっと 少なくなります</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">頭と体を使うと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">おなかが空きます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">疲れて眠くなります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">眠ると </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">頭がハッキリします</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">以前より 少しだけ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">冷静に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">前向きに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">考えられることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">「そんなことできない」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できないと言った人は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できないかもしれません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">そう意思を固めたのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなた ご自身だから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">他の誰かが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたを変えることは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できないの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">「やってみよう」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたの体を動かすのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなただから </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できるかもしれません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">きっと </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">小さな変化が起こるでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">一つ何かを始めたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">自分の中に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">反応が生まれるはずです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">発見があるはずです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">私も そうして</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ひとつひとつを積み重ね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">することを増やし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">今の </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">平坦な気持ちの方が多い日々を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">過ごしています</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">わたしのような人でも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できるんだもの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">皆さんもできますよ</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">他人と競うのではなく</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">誰かのせいにするでもなく</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたは </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなたと向き合い</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あなた自身をコントロールする</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">強い意思と勇気が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial";">必要なのかもしれません</span></div><div><span style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "arial";">自分なりに<br />頭を空っぽにできる場所を<br />見つけるのも 一つの方法かな</span></td></tr>
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</div>40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-6958459950742449872020-08-20T18:49:00.004+09:002020-11-19T20:30:48.832+09:00自分のことは自分で立て直す<span style="font-family: arial;"><span style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">娘たちが小さい頃</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">泣いている彼女たちに</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">何度か</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">言ったことがあります</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">『一度 部屋に戻って</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;"> 気持ちが</span><span style="color: #666666;">落ち着いたら</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"> 戻っておいで</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"> あなたの気持ちを</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"> 他の 誰かが</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"> 落ち着かせてあげることは</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"> できないから』と</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">冷たい母でしょうか</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">辛さや悲しさの場合は</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">また </span><span style="color: #666666;">別の</span><span style="color: #666666;">対処方法も</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ありますが</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">彼らの中で湧きあがった </span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">腹立ち・悔しさ・苛立ちや</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">思い通りに</span><span style="color: #666666;">ならないことに</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">対する</span><span style="color: #666666;">憤りは</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">なだめたり</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">言い聞かせたりしても</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">他人(親)の言い分では</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">納得がいかない</span><span style="color: #666666;">場合も</span><span style="color: #666666;">あります</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;"><br /></span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">思いきり </span><span style="color: #666666;">泣いたり</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">寝てしまった方が</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">スッキリすることも……</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">もちろん </span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">甘えることで</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">もとに戻ることもありました</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">色々な時がありつつ</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">娘たちも</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">ある程度の時間をかけ</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">自分で自分を</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">落ち着かせることが</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">できるようになっていきました</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">よく </span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">祖母が言っていました</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">「人に 機嫌を取ってもらわないと</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">いけない人になっては</span><span style="color: #666666;">ダメよ」と</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">私は 祖母のいう</span><span style="color: #666666;">『ダメ』に</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">近い子どもでしたから</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">その後 成長するにつれ</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">自己コントロールに</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">苦労した時期があります</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">なだめる人がいないと</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">落ち着くことができない</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">機嫌を取ってもらわないと</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">気分よく居られないようでは</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">周りだけではなく </span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">自分も </span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">どうしたらいいのか</span><span style="color: #666666;">わからなくて</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">大変なのですよね</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">子どもだけではなく</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">大人にもあるのが</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">・ほめて欲しい</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">・認めて欲しい</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">これも同じで </span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">自分を満たすためには</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">他の人が必要になります</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="color: #666666;">誰かに動いて</span><span style="color: #666666;">もらわないと</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">叶わないことなのです</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">けれど 人は</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">自分の思うとおりに</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;">動いてはくれません</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="color: #666666;"><br /></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">だからこそ</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">機嫌を取る</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">なだめる・落ち着かせる</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ほめる・認める</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">気持ちを立て直していく……を</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">いつでも </span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">どこでも</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">自分でできるよう</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">日々 練習が必要だと</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">感じています</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="color: #666666;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"> </span></span><br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: arial;">心理学は統計学だと<br />
言われることもありますが<br />
「ひきこもり」と<br />
ひと言でまとめることはできないくらい<br />
様々な状況があるのだと<br />
感じる本です</span></td></tr>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-22895539381330071872020-08-05T00:40:00.006+09:002020-08-20T13:10:46.765+09:00わたし がんばりました♡<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />
これまでの<br />ご自分を振り返り<br />
<br />
「わたし<br />
がんばりました」……って</span><br />
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">言える時期や</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">言えることは<br />ありませんか?</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />
<br />大小にかかわらず</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">どの方にも </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あるのではないでしょうか<br />
<br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あの時の<br />ご自分の頑張りを<br />
思い出してみませんか?<br /><br />考え </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">工夫して </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">忍耐した自分 </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">許しや</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">思いやりを持てた自分</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">がむしゃらに</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">前に進んだ自分を</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<b><span style="font-family: "arial";">なかったことに</span></b></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><b>しないで欲しい</b>のです<br />
<br />また<br />
<br />
「あの時には<br />
仕方がなかった」<br />
<br />
「精一杯だった」も <br />
あるのではないでしょうか<br />
<br />
<br />
どう <br />
戻って考えても<br />
その選択と</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">行動をしただろう自分<br />
<br />
それ以上のことは</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あの時には</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">できなかった</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">周囲に優しくなれなかった</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ご自分を<br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">どうぞ</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">許してあげてください<br />
<br />
<br />
ご自分のしたことを</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">善悪や</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">正しい間違っているで </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">判断せず</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">
認め・許し<br />時にあきらめて</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">受け入れてみると<br />
<br />
私だって </span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">こうなのだもの<br />
他の人だって……</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />仕方がないことも</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">あるよねって</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />辛かった経験を通し</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">そこに 新しい</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">ご自分の感覚が</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">生まれるかもしれません</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />
<br />
自分に優しくできたなら<br />
</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">許すことができたなら</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />その時の 気楽さと<br />
ほっとした気持ち</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">前を向く力が</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">生まれることを</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">自分は知っているから<br /><br />他の人にも</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";">優しくできるような気がします</span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span style="font-family: "arial";"><br />
<br />
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-57594535697051889242020-07-20T07:35:00.005+09:002020-11-19T20:32:03.833+09:00「学ぶ・知る」ことで変わることがある<br style="background-color: white; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, "Palatino Linotype", Palatino, serif; font-size: 12px; text-align: justify;" />
<span style="font-family: arial;"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">前回の記事のコメント欄に</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">質問を</span></span><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;">いただきました</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
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<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b>『相手に変わってもらうのは</b></span></span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"> 無理なんだと</span><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;">痛感しました。</span></b></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b> どうしたら 気持ちよく</b></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b> 相手とかかわれるように</b></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b> なるのでしょうね』</b></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">……と</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">悩みの”もと”となる</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">人間関係では</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">日々 </span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">様々</span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">なことが起こります</span></span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">「どうしたら?」</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">私もこの答えを求め</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">心について</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">学び始めたのだと思います</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">あくまでも </span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">私は……ですが</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span><b><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・学ぶこと</span></span></b></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・</span></span><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;">知ること</span></b></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><b>・経験を増やすこと</b></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;">が</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">必要だと感じています</span></span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial;">そして </span></span></div>
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="background-color: white; font-family: arial;">生きている限り</span></span></div>
<span style="font-family: arial;"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">これらを続けること</span></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span></span>
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">いくつになっても</span></span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">遅くはないですし</span></span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; text-align: justify;"><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">終わりもない</span></span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">何を学び</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">何を知るのか……</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">と言ったら</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">人間関係が</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">うまくいく方法以上に</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ん~ 同時にかな!?</span><br />
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<b><br /></b></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b>『自分自身について』</b></span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b>学び・</b><b>知るのです</b></span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">生きているうちに</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">出会う人の数は</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">それぞれ異なりますが</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">その都度 相手を知り</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">つき合い方を変えることは</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">難しい</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">だからこそ</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">一番身近な存在で </span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">唯一</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">自分自身で動かすことのできる</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><b>『私』</b>を知るのです</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・何が苦手で</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・何が得意で</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・どうして困っていて</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・何に悩み</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"> どう落ち込むのか</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・何をすると楽しくて</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・どうすると 気持ちを</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"> 持ち直すことができるのか</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・どんな人とつき合いたいのか</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">・どんな思考の”クセ”があるのか</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">例えば</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">『傾聴』という言葉を</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">聞いたことがありますか?</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">”耳”と”目”と”心”を</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">相手に傾けて</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">熱心に話を聴くことです</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">この『聴く』</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">という行為一つでも</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">自分自身を知らないと</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">相手に興味を持つより</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">自分の気持ちにばかり</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">目が向いてしまい</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">聴くことが</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">できなくなってしまうのです</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">心を学ぶたび </span><span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">思います</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">「結局は</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">~私自身~を</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">どうコントロールするか」</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">なのよね……と</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">私という車の運転手は</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">私 ただ一人です</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">車の特性を知ったうえで</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">暴走させるのも</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">安全運転をするのも</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">ほどほどに</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">運転を楽しむのも</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif"><br /></span>
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif">私次第・私自身なのです</span><br />
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<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="font-size: x-small;">ありがとうございます</span><br />
<span face=""arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif" style="font-size: x-small;">考えるきっかけになっております</span><br />
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-87332333430489627832020-07-05T22:27:00.001+09:002020-07-06T20:02:54.765+09:00それはあなたの問題かもしれません<br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">お悩みの内容を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">伺っていきますと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・あの人(友人や職場の人)が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・夫が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・子どもが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・親が……と </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分以外の</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「どなたか」の話に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">なることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">問題や原因は </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">”環境”や”相手”だけにある</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">”自分以外の何かが変われば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">全て丸く解決するはず”</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">と </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">信じている場合は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">少なくありません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">でも 実際は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなたが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">そう簡単に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">思考や 行動を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">変えられないように</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今すぐ変わらないように</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">相手もまた </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなたの要望通りに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">変わることが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">できないのかもしれません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">もしかしたら そもそも </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「悪い」「ダメだ」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「何とかしなくちゃ」なんて </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">これっぽっちも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">思っていない場合もあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">また</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『私は正しい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなたは間違っている』と </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">お互い 無意識に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">勝負をしている場合も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> *</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分以外の人のことで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">悩んでいる時</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">全てとは言いませんが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">もしかしたら </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">それは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">相手に問題があるのではなく </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなた自身の問題かもしれない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">可能性があります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">問題というか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなたの『課題』……かな</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・相手にうまく対処できない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・自分の気持ちを処理できない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> コントロールできない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・その人の</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 言ったことやしたことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 適当に ほどほどに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> いなすことができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・見逃すことができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・許すことができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> (言わずに・責めずにいられない)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・期待することをやめることができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・「変わって欲しい」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 「変えたい」という願望を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 捨てることができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">などなど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">こういう事って</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">何か大きな問題が起きて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">初めて気がつくのですよね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">どこかで クリアしないと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">環境が変わっても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">相手が変わっても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">似たようなことで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">何度でも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">同じ悩みが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">生まれることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ということは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今 目の前で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">起こっているそのことは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あなたにとって</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">”変化のチャンス”と言える</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分に起きている</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">マイナスの出来事を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">私自身は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">そう受け取ってきました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今や お友だちと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">コーヒーフロートを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">いただくことすら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">貴重な感じがしております</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(^^♪</span></td></tr>
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<br />40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-69034074179180162492020-06-18T12:14:00.002+09:002020-11-19T20:32:35.767+09:00自分を耕す<div data-dobid="dfn">
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<b><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">耕す(たがやす)</span></b></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">意味を調べてみると</span></div>
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<b><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">『田畑を掘り返して</span></b></div>
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<b><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">農作に都合がよいように</span></b></div>
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<b><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">土を柔らかくする』</span></b></div>
<div data-dobid="dfn">
<span style="font-family: arial;"><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">と ありました</span><br />
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">人も</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">同じなのかもしれません</span></div>
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</div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">何もせず</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">ほおっておけば</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: arial;"><span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">固くなる</span><br />
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div>
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</div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">時々 耕して</span></div>
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<span class="vk_gy" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">生きていきやすいように</span></div>
<div class="vmod">
<span class="vk_gy" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">”気持ちや態度・言葉”を</span></div>
<div class="vmod">
<span style="font-family: arial;"><span class="vk_gy" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif">柔らかくする</span><br />
<span class="vk_gy" face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif"><br /></span></span></div>
<div>
</div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">私にとっては</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">映画・音楽・本</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">人の話を聴く・愛する</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">旅をする チャレンジする </span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">日々を楽しむ</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">全てが自分を耕すことに</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">繋がっていると感じます</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">その後</span></div>
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<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">種を植え</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">水をやり</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">太陽の光を浴びて</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">成長する</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
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<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">それを</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">誰かにしてもらうのを</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">待ってはいないでしょうか?</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">いつになるのかわからない</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">”その時”を</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">ただ 待つくらいなら</span></div>
<div>
<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;"><br /></span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">一人しかない</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">大切な自分のために</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">自分で「今」できることを</span></div>
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<span face="Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" style="font-family: arial;">しようと思っています</span></div>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-40458395367892769332020-06-04T19:47:00.002+09:002020-06-05T19:55:34.941+09:00普通の夫 普通の父親とは<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">お話を伺っていると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">多くの方が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「普通」「常識的に」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">おっしゃいます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">この </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「普通」や「常識」が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どこの誰にとっても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">同じであれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ぶつかることや</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">戸惑うことは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今より ずっと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">少なくて済むでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">でも </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">そうはいかないもので……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">長い間一緒に暮らす</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">夫婦や 家族でさえも </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">感覚が異なるから </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">おもしろくもあり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">難しくもあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">お互い </span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">自分は </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">特別な事は言っていない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">当たり前のことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">言っていると思っているから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それを 主張する</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">一方 相手は思っていない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">だから 行き違う</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もしかしたら </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">頭では 理解をしようと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">努めてくれることも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あるかもしれません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ただ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">理解しようとするのと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">相手がこちらの言う通りに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">行動するかどうかは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">別のことです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もちろん</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わからない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わかるつもりもない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">……という場合も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・子育て</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・親への接し方</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・仕事の選択や向き合い方</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・家事の分量や時間の配分</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・人とのおつきあい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・男とは 女とは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・その役割?は などなど</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">人それぞれの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「普通」や「常識」の数は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">驚くほどあるのだと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">お話を伺うたびに感じます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ちなみに </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">お悩みや 経験談</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">友人たちの話を聴くうちに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ある時から思い始めたことは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私も含め</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">女性たちが勝手に思う</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>普通の夫・普通の父親</b>は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">実は </span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">いないのでは?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">ということです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わたしたちの思う</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「普通」は「普通ではない」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どこかで勝手に植え付けられた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">かなりの高い理想</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">でしか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ないのかもしれません</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">イギリスのダイアナ元妃が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">インタビューで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">興味深いことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">おっしゃっています</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『ダイアナ妃の告白』</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">という</span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">映画の中での言葉です </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『自分も ほかの女の子と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 同じように思っていた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 夫が父親のように</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 私の面倒をみてくれて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 支えてくれると信じていた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 時に優しく 時に厳しくね』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">事実は どうかわかりませんが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">少なくとも彼女は </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">実生活で そう感じなかった</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ということなのでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">年齢を重ねると感じます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">精神的に支えて欲しいのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">女性よりも 男性側</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ということもありますし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">優しいと感じられる人は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">別の見方をすれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">優柔不断・口下手</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">人まかせの部分もある</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">厳しいところがある人は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">圧が強い・自分勝手・批判的</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">と感じることもあるのですよね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">両方 適度になんて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私たち 女性だって</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">難しいような気もします</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『こうでしょ!』と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自己主張する前に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分の思う</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「普通」や「常識」を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">少しだけ疑ってみる価値は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あるのかもしれません</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こんなにきれいに見えるなんて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">知りませんでした</span></td></tr>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-3931957785083065112020-05-20T12:38:00.002+09:002020-05-20T18:09:17.412+09:00『なぜ』『どうして』を考えても仕方がない<br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">誰かの行動や発言に納得がいかない時</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆さん おっしゃいます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『なぜなんでしょう』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『どうしてかしら?』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ん~ どうしてでしょうね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こればっかりは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ご本人にきいてみないとわからない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">きいたからと言って</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">本人も「なんでだろう?」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わからない場合も……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こちら側としては</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『なぜ』『どうして』に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分の納得する答えが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">返ってくれば良いのですよね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆さん 大いに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">期待をするようです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">でも </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">多くの場合</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">期待通りの返答は得られない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">なぜなら </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分と他の人は</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(それが家族でも)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">考えや思い 育ちや環境</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">年代などが異なるからです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">挙句の果てに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「それだけは 言って欲しくなかった」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「ききたくなかった」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「して欲しくなかった」という</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">態度や言葉がかえってきて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">さらに 腹立たしさが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">増すこともありますし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「わからない」「どうでもいい」</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">言われたことで </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今以上に 混乱し</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">不安になることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私たちが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『なぜ』『どうして』と訊く理由</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もちろん シンプルに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">相手のことを知りたいと思うから!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それは最高♡</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">”コミュニケーション”って</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">お互いを知るためにするのですもの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">一方 </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分の欲しい答えを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">相手に言わせたいから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">つまり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分が納得したいだけ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">白黒つけて </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分が正しいと主張したい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">相手を言い負かしたいから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">……だとすると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">相手はそれを察知します</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">そして </span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『なぜ』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『どうして』</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">と言われたとたん</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">責められていると感じ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">反発心が生まれたり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">素直に 答える気持ちが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">失せる場合もあるのですよね</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ちなみに わたし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">家族に「なぜ」「どうして」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">思わず訊いてしまってから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分で答えています</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『それがわかっていたらね~』と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ということで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">過去の「なぜ」「どうして」より</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『あなたはどうあれ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 私はこう思うよ』を伝える</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">この先 彼らが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どうしようと思っているかを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">聴くように心がけています</span><br />
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<br />40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-47415677664022702232020-05-04T23:42:00.001+09:002020-05-20T18:12:35.447+09:00改めて 自分に問いかける時間<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">コロナの影響で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時間ができたことにより</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ふと 考えることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">これまでの 自分の生活を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ふりかえることがあるのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆さんはいかがでしょう……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・マスクなしで 外出できたこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・家族それぞれが 自分の世界で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 動き出したこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・おかげで 自分が好きな時に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 旅や仕事に出かけることができたことも</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今となっては とてもありがたく</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">特別な 恵まれた時間だったのだ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">と 感じます</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">一方 「この先も必要?」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分に問うことがあります</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">◇今後は 必要ないと思う事</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">◇程度や分量を減らしても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> いいこと・物・時間・スペース</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">◇これまではよかったけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> この先は かかわり方を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 変えた方が</span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">いいのかもしれないと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;"> 認識すること</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どこかで立ち止まり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">冷静に考えることができていたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">良かったのでしょうけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">いざ 走り始めると </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">止まるのが怖くなる </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私がいたようです</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それも発見……ですね</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">人との接点が少ない今だからこそ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「あ~ 私こう思っているんだ」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">基準を自分に置き 自分を理解する</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今は </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">そんな時間なのかもしれない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">と 思っています</span><br />
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<b><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px;">『思考に気をつけなさい、それはいつか言葉になるから</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px;"> 言葉に気をつけなさい、それはいつか行動になるから</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px;"> 行動に気をつけなさい、それはいつか習慣になるから</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px;"> 習慣に気をつけなさい、それはいつか性格になるから</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 16px;"> 性格に気をつけなさい、それはいつか運命になるから』</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">多くの方がご存知かもしれません</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: 16px;">マザー・テレサの言葉です</span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">おそらく 私は</span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ベースとなる <b>思考</b>を変えたくて……</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">変えたいというか </span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">思考の幅を広げたくて</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『心』について</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">学ぼうと思ったのだと思います</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">天秤で言ったら 片方にしか</span></span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">錘が乗っていない過去の自分から</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もう片方も知り・学び </span></span><br />
<span style="color: #333333; font-family: sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">平らに近づけてみる</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">過去の自分を振り返り</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">なかったものを 自分に足していく</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">見ようとしなかった扉を開けてみる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">飛び込んで 体験してみる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">人の意見を受け入れてみる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">信じてみる </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">大切だと思う人には 相手がどうあれ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分が持てる愛情と応援する気持ちを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">伝えてみる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">でも……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時には あきらめも必要 </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">苦しくても 辛くても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">現実を認める </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分の感覚を信じ 離れてみる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">待ってみる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">できる限り</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">喜びや感謝の気持ちを伝えてみる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">できることをした先に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">予想外の 景色が広がると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私は知りました♡</span><br />
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-17094962784679377632020-04-05T18:47:00.002+09:002020-04-06T17:52:12.492+09:00あなたの家族はダメじゃない<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今のような状態になった時</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">娘たちに伝えました</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">震災・他の災害時にあったこと </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">例えば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・外で遊ぶことができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・勉強する場所がない/勉強が進まない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・友だちと会うことができない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・今までつきあっていた人との</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 関係を分断される</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・必要な物を列を作って手に入れる</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それでも 今の私たちには</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">家も ライフラインもありますので</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">彼らと全く同じ気持ちではないですし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">本当の辛さはわからない</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わからなくても その一部分でも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分のこととして捉え・感じるのが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今なんだよ……と</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">以下 何度か同じことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">書いていることを お許しください </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">わかりやすいので 再度書きます </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">母がよく言いました</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「私は 自分が被災者になるまで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> どこの災害も 他人事だったのかもしれない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 心配もしたし 心も痛めた </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> でも 彼らのその時を 真に理解していたか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> と言ったら それはできていなかったと思う」と</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">本当にそう 私にも当てはまります</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ただ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『居場所と収入を得る方法を失くした</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 被災者の家族』は 経験があります</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">世のなかでは </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">大変な時こそ 助け合う姿が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">メインに映し出されたかもしれません</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もちろん助け合いや励ましあいもありつつ</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">同時に 意見の相違や家族間での衝突 </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">戸惑い・悩み・人に言えない苦痛が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それぞれにありました </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">実際 当時 東北の方々のお話でも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">夫婦・親子間・親戚間のもめごとや</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">不平不満・別居や離婚の話は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">少なくありませんでした</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今『コロナ離婚』という言葉が出ていますが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">3月 私のところにいらっしゃる方たちに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「この後 離婚が増えるかも」と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">申し上げると 皆さん驚かれていました</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私が震災当時 お話を伺って感じたのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どちらが 良い/悪い 正しい/間違っている</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">というよりは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">置かれている立場で 思いが異なる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それぞれに言い分があるということでした</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時に </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どちらもが ”同じ誰か”を思っているのに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">選ぶ意見や行動 道が異なり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それが相手にとっては</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">理解できないことだったりするのですよね</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ある一つの考え方でしかないのですが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こう思ってはみませんか</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">世の中が大変な時に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ケンカをしたり 助け合えなかったり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ひとつになれない家族なんかダメ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">未来がない……のではないのです</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">予想外のことが起こると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">モメたり ぶつかりあったり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">イライラしたりしてしまうもので</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">別に 特別な事ではありません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">なぜなら 皆が 戸惑いますし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">未来が不安だったりもします</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">理解しあう事のできない部分は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">家族であっても あるものです</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ちょっとだけ 過去にあったことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">思い出して欲しいのですが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">家族の中で 冠婚葬祭があると </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">急にもめごとが起こったり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">しませんでしたか?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こんな時に……と思うけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">小さなことで 妙に怒っている身内</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">誰かを責めている身内は</span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">いませんでしたか?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">でも 少し時間が経って落ち着くと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自然に関係が元に戻っていたり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「どうして あの時あの人は?」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">と思ったり</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">悲しみや辛さ・忙しさや戸惑いが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時に 人をそうさせる場合があると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私は理解するようにしていますし</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">もしかしら </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">”そういう部分もある人”と認識し</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今後の対応を学ぶ機会なのかもしれません</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今の姿が その人のすべて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">真の姿と決めつけないでください</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">どうぞ 結論を急がないでください</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">大人になってからのことですが……</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今 私の</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分自身が </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">実際</span><br />
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<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>”自分の体や心を</b></span><br />
<span style="color: #6aa84f; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b> 使って</b><b>してきたこと”</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="color: #6aa84f;"><b><br /></b></span>
<b><span style="color: #6aa84f;">”積み重ねてきたこと”</span></b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">だな……と感じています</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">最終的に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">他の誰かに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『褒められた』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『認められた』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">こと以上に</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「やったね」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「できた!!」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「頑張ったよ」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「失敗したとしても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 結果が出なかったとしても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 私 努力できたよね」と</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分を認めることができたことが</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">何よりも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分を支えるものに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">なっているように感じます</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆さんはいかがでしょうか?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">大宮駅駅の</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">エキュートでも</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あつあつをいただけるのが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">嬉しいです</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時々</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">祖母の時代に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">思いを馳せることがあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">祖母も話してくれましたし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">祖母から聞いた話を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">母が伝えてくれることもあります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">***</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">祖母は長女でしたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">子どもながら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">家族のために</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">良く働いたこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">大人になっても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">弟や妹たち</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">母違いの兄弟のことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">気にかけて大切にしていました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">知らない土地にお嫁に行き</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">長女を出産したものの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">小さいうちに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">亡くしたこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">妊娠のたび</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">つわりで12キロもやせたこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><b>(つわりがひどいのは遺伝かな!?)</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">次に生まれた双子</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(私の母と叔母)は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">とても 小さくて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">少しでも 長く生きて欲しい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">という願いを込めて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">名前を付けた事</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">そんなことってあるの?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">という感じですが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">長女を亡くしただけではなく</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">その後 祖母は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">夫を病気で亡くしました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">生きていくため</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私が知る祖父と再婚</span><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">(祖父はとても優しくて</span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">私は いつも</span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">おじいちゃんみたいな人と</span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif; font-size: x-small;">結婚したいと思っていました)</span></b><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">食べていくため・育てるため</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">小さな幼い双子の母たちを預け</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">美容師の修行へ行ったこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">美容院を立ちあげたものの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">チリ津波と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">宮城県沖地震に遭いました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それにも負けず</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">店を大きくしていく姿や</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">がむしゃらに働いていた姿</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">従業員さんたちを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">一人前の女性に育てようとする姿は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私の記憶にも残っています</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">平坦な日々は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">本当にありがたい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ありがたいけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">生きていれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">色々なことが起こります</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">それでも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">戦争をくぐりぬけてきた祖父母</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">東日本大震災に耐えた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">両親より</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(これまで日本で起こった</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 災害も同じく)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今の私たちは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">まだまだ安全・安心な世の中で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">暮らしていていると思うのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">声をかけあい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">思いやりを分け合い</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">助け合い</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">何より</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ご自分やご家族を労わって</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">今を過ごしていきたいものですね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<br />
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<tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVcfV_e19RygkqAw1KcNqKd46qzH1PMYAiz4kQbyHnfiX16uUAb6_mcFELXs6yNUAXna-tO4DJdZ432b9uGBfVNntJHGIt5MWbwwQCc5VwQUczGpUZ8C7hFhMgdq0q0Vll8AIc9dVBKW6R/s1600/%25E6%25AF%258D%25E6%25A2%2585%25E6%259E%2597.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><img border="0" data-original-height="675" data-original-width="900" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjVcfV_e19RygkqAw1KcNqKd46qzH1PMYAiz4kQbyHnfiX16uUAb6_mcFELXs6yNUAXna-tO4DJdZ432b9uGBfVNntJHGIt5MWbwwQCc5VwQUczGpUZ8C7hFhMgdq0q0Vll8AIc9dVBKW6R/s320/%25E6%25AF%258D%25E6%25A2%2585%25E6%259E%2597.JPG" width="320" /></span></a></td></tr>
<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">母を梅林に連れ出しました♪</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私流</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">母を大切に想っていた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">祖父母と父への恩返し♡</span></td></tr>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<h1>
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<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">2020年2月から</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「てのひらの幸せ」は</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">毎月5日・20日前後の</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>月2回更新</b>に変更になります</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">また </span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
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<div style="background-color: white;">
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<div style="background-color: white; font-family: meiryo;">
<div style="margin: 0px;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ご覧下さいませ</span></div>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-25880581790286978842020-02-19T20:53:00.002+09:002020-02-24T19:50:24.550+09:00~この世にお金がなかったら~<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">以前</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">TVを見ていたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">前澤 友作さんが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">「この世から </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">お金が</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">無くなればいいと思っている」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">と </span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">おっしゃっていて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">『なるほど~』と</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">私の</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">”楽しい妄想”が始まりました</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">良い・悪い</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">現実的か……などは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">脇に置いて</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">『なんか 楽しい♡』</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"> 思ったのです</span><br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">例えば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">バッグ一つとっても</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">『○○(ブランド物)の……』とか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">『価格』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">という基準ではなく</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">そこには</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">自分だけの価値観が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">生まれるのですよね</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">私なら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">普段用のバッグは</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・仕分けがしやすい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・軽くて</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">持ちやすい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・肩にかけることもできる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・季節感を感じられるもの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・持っている洋服に合う</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">ものだと うれしいな~って</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">仕事用のバッグは</span><br />
・<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">間口が大きい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・A4が入る</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・自立し 形はしっかり目が好き</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・一部チャックは必要</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">・雨にぬれても</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">拭けばいい素材</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">だとうれしい</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">などなど</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">お金がかからないのであれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">長持ちする必要はないのかも!?</span><br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">そこで </span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">単純に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">「この世にお金が無かったら」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">という考えで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">使う物や </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">食べるもの </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">やってみること </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">その他諸々を選んでみたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">おもしろいんじゃないかな~って</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">そうすれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">自分からの目線が一番で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">自分流の『好き』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">自分なりの『良い』に囲まれて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">過ごすことができるのかも</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">高いから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">”</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">取っておこう”とか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">”捨てづらい”もないですし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">”安いから○○”とか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">”価値がない”</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">ないのかもしれません</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">って 言いながら~</span><br />
<br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">先ほど 友人から届いた</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">あるお誘いに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">『うわっ お得~』</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">と </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">感じてしまった </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">私がいました(^^ゞ</span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">やっぱり理想かしら</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">!?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">でも </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">前澤さんの考え方は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">私にとっては</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">楽しく 愉快</span><span style="font-family: "yugothm";">でしたし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">これから自分が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">何かを選ぶとき</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">必要な基準なのかもしれない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";">とも思います(*^^*)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "yugothm";"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「てのひらの幸せ」は</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">毎月5日・20日前後の</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>月2回更新</b>に変更になります</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">また </span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/category/blog">ブログ</a>・講座の告知や募集</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-60385571144147649482020-02-05T11:33:00.000+09:002020-05-04T14:30:07.237+09:00生きづらさの理由<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分の人生を生きていないと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">人は生きづらい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あちこちで伺う話です</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">その他に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">生きづらさを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">感じている方に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">見当たる共通点が二つ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">(あくまでも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">私が感じる共通点です)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">①批判力が強すぎる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『批判力』も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">時には大切なこと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・会社やチーム</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 自分を成長させるため</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">・今 手掛けている</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 「事」を成功させるために</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">より良く……を求める時には</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">必要な場合もあることでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ただ</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">日常生活で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">活発化しすぎると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">学校が 友人が 世間が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あの人が この人が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">この店が 対応が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">言い方が 表示が……と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">文句とストレスの</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">オンパレードになることも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ある意味 </span><span style="font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;">自分自身で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">不平不満や</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">気持ちがマイナスに向く要素を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">生み出しているとも言える</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">善・悪 </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">正しい・間違っている</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">良い・悪い</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">正解・不正解ばかりを求めると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">批判力は強くなるように</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">感じるのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">②自分のこととして</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"> 受け取らない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">例えば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">参考になる話や考え方を聴いた時に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「そう うちの主人がそうなの」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">『うちの子がね』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「それって あの人のことでしょ」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ん~ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ところで</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分はどうだろう?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あなたのことを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">一番に考えてあげられるのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">あなたなのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">他の人のことは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">その人自身が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">考えればいいことだから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">まずは </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">自分にあてはめて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">振り返ってみると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">考えるきっかけにしてみると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ご自身にとって</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">役に立つことが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">たくさんあるのかもしれません</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">の</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b><span style="color: #e06666; font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">~お知らせ~</span></b></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">2020年2月から</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">「てのひらの幸せ」は</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">毎月5日・20日前後の</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>月2回更新</b>に変更になります</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">また </span></span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/category/blog">ブログ</a>・講座の告知や募集</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">皆様からいただくお声は</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
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<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><a href="https://www.wakamatsu-miho.jp/">「いまとみらいのへや」</a>を</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;">ご覧下さいませ</span></div>
<div style="background-color: white;">
<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><br /></span></div>
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40s-style-magazinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10381800369476836578noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5877845630308045149.post-7789671073731965162020-01-28T23:03:00.002+09:002020-01-29T20:10:45.234+09:00自分で働き方改革<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">この仕事の</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ここが良くない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あれが良くない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あの人が……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">この人が……と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">不平不満やストレスを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">溜めつづけるより</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">その仕事・条件や環境が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分には合っていない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">という考え方で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分で </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">働き方改革をしてみるのは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">いかがでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">近年 </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">お仕事でのご相談が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">増えてきました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">伺っていくと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">色々</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">不平不満はあるけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・通勤時間が短くていいのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・周りの人に恵まれているのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・時給・お給料が良いのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・今いただいているくらい</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 暮らしのためには必要なのです</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">・歳も歳だし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 今更 違う仕事なんてね~</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">それなら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今のところが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">やっぱりいい……のかな!?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">その上で</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『でも』と</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あとに続く言葉があるとすれば</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ご自分では そこが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『引っかかっているところ』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『譲れないところ』なのですよね</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">全てが揃っている働きどころは</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">なかなか無いことを前提に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">決断を急ぎすぎず</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">お仕事をしながら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今「あるもの」と「ないもの」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「自分の得たいもの」と「必要のないもの」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">今いる場所にいて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">欲しいものを得られる可能性が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あるのかどうか</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">考えてみるのはいかがでしょう</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">もしかしたら</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">見えてくることが</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">あったりして……</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">***</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">いくつかの例を挙げると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「やりたいこと」をしたいと</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">選んだ仕事だったけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分は</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『仕事内容より</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 共に働く人との</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 良好な人間関係が必要だった</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(心と体の健康のために)』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">という場合もありますし</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">週5で働いていたのを</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">週2~3にした方が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">『メンタルや疲れ具合</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"> 家庭とのバランスもうまくいった』</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">という方もいます</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">遅い時間の出勤の方が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">よく眠ることができたり</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">家事を終えてから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">出かけることができる</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">交通機関も混雑が少なくて</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">心身共に負担が少ない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">帰宅が遅い方が</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">生活に無駄がない</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">(夜更かしやスマホを触る時間が減る)</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">という方もいらっしゃいました</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">慣れた仕事を</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">やめる決心がつかなかったけれど</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">いざ </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">新しい仕事を始めてみると</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">新たな職場と人間関係に</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">学びや楽しさが増している</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">……という方も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">職場も 相手も</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">自分の思う通りに</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">変わってはくれないから</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">ある程度は 割り切る</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">「自分から選択する」</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">という視点を持つのも</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">一つの方法なのかもしれません</span><br />
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